Category: Marriage

SEX GONE WRONG! (The Reasons, the Costs, and the Keys to Avoiding Catastrophe)

Dale (not his real name) was in my office, and through sobs of despair and shame, he said, “I don’t know what happened or why, but I cheated on my…
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IT'S NOT ALL ABOUT ME (OR YOU) AND WHY THAT REALITY MATTERS

“Honey, I want to pop into the Verizon store for just a second to check out the new iPhone 6S. I might be eligible for an upgrade. I’m not going…
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THE KEY TO NOTHING (Is there really an answer to all your problems?)

If someone ever tells you, “I have the key to your health, to your happiness, to your success, to your marriage . . .” walk away. In fact, run away.…
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BUT I LOVE A “GOOD” EXCUSE!  (What not to do when you blow it!)

There are two words that should never go together: wrong and but. It’s not okay to say, “I know I was wrong, but you made me do it.” Or, “I…
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